Ok - so for some reason, I am super excited and happy about the alleged Beyonce-Jay-Z wedding that supposedly took place this past Friday. I don't know what it is about them getting married that makes me so happy! Maybe its because she and I are the same age and I've been a DC/Bey fan for so long that I feel like she's a friend of mine and we kinda grew up together over the past 10 years. Plus, I love me some Jay and I love the two of them together and they've managed to maintain a relationship over the past 6 years in Hollywood when most people can't even stay together for 6 minutes without us hearing about a break up or divorce. I just love it - I love it all and I'm mad I wasn't invited :(
My own love is cool too. I mean, we're no Bey and Jay, but best believe O -n- E are the hotness!! And I swear there's not enough time in the day to spend together and say all that needs to be said. But when I say there's not enough time, I mean it.....I feel asleep at 7:00 last night. 7:00!!!!!!!!! I mean, I put great-grandmothers to shame! I need to get it together.
Anyway, workplace romance is not the business. And me being fun, fabulous, and flirty is not cool either (apparently). I went out with co-workers this weekend and two different couples, or couple-like pairs were part of the group. Now I'm cool with both the guys and one of the girls, so I'm used to hanging with them and socializing all the time. These 'relationships' are both new though and I guess the interactions between us weren't something they were used to, so now I have to tone it down to make the ladies more comfortable. Ain't that some mess! I mean, I can fully understand where they are coming from, but it sucks. It like, before he was your man, he was my friend - and most likely when yall brake up (cuz you probably will) he'll still be my friend. AND I have a man and have NO interest in yours!!! I mean, WTF! I'm just venting, cuz honestly I hate my boyfriend having female friends also, but you know what....I deal with it, and I don't tell him to stop doing anything he's doing, because I'm secure and comfortable in myself and in our relationship. Am I wrong? Should I stop? Do I have to show more loyalty to my gender and not my male friends? This sucks.
Spring love.
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5 comments:
i am happy for them too. i love them together and they are so fabulous and BLACK!!!!
now whats this about male friends versus their female lovers? don't flirt with another girls man. you askin to get cut? they don't know you are an innocent friendly spirit.
LMAO @ that whole comment.
Well I think you should be his friend, yall can hang out outside of work still and go by his office, Hell I would. You know, Im queen of somebody mans girlfriend hatting me and they still do.
who the hell cares.
LMAO! Yes you are the queen of that ridiculously long title.
I agree, don't stop being friends. The girlfriends may hate for a minute but those feelings will change once they understand the dynamics of your friendship. It's still new now so they're just trying to figure you out...
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